Friday, 15 July 2011

Back in Pokhara!

I’ve been very lazy re my blog…and I know I’ll regret not keeping it up to date, as it’s so easy to forget moments that might not seem special at the time and will all become a bit of a blur….

So here goes….Its Tuesday night 5/7/2011, just gone 10:30pm, I’m lying in bed in a gorgeous original old Nepalese building in the hamlet village of Bandipur. Its basic but authentic, wooden beams, original doors (not sure what they are made of),I have my own little private balcony, shared bathroom …all for £2.70 a night. The room consists of a double bed, a stool, a bamboo mat and ….so far 4 cockroaches! (that have now moved on to another life!) Oops all against the Vipassana thingy…but that was more of an experience journey for me than a religious one. At least they weren’t flying cockroaches….they are the hardest to find….especially in candle light, which is all I’ve has since I arrived at 7.30pm today.
Bandipur

view from my window
 I returned to Kathmandu after the Vipassana course. I was glad to hear that my drinking buddy Paddy was still around. Paddy moved onto Myanmar after three or so days and I hung around Kathmandu for a few days more after that…not sure why..as it was really getting to me :o( Went into overwhelm of what to do next. Strange feeling of being all alone! The monsoon is really starting to kick in…the streets are turning into rivers, shower water is like mud, you can smell the rust and the constant hash, which is not my thing....thank god! The street kids are becoming even more in your face. Begging for money whilst sniffing glue, some look as young as 5 or 6 but are probably older as more than likely malnourished. I got talking to Mary who owns one of the Irish Bars (funny that..huh!)..there is a guy called Declan who is doing amazing work trying to save the street kids before they get hooked on glue. She said he only takes on Nepalese volunteers…and to be honest, I think I would struggle emotionally even if I could help. I followed two boys for about half an hour whilst they went about their daily routine of sticking their hand out then sharing a sniff from a wrapper of glue. Hard to describe the sadness and guiltiness off not doing anything about it apart from observing! Their life gets worse..they are regularly beaten by police, become hooked on harder drugs and are vulnerable to sexual abuse (which includes tourists) :o(
Jan, a guy from Brussels who knows a lot about Buddhism and the whole Vippasanna thingy took me sightseeing. It was a very interesting day, however I did have to run away after lunch as he was getting a bit too “oh Elizabeth can you feel the real positive energy between us“ stuff going on, yeah ok Jan…tada mate!!  Must admit…starting to feel that people are only interested in my money or my body.…neither of which are up to much!!!
Patan's Durbar Square in Kathmandu



a crazy busy street in Patan
So I thought it’s about time I moved on. After a delicious breakfast, i walked to the local bus station, as I’m on a budget I’m getting really used to public transport, is very uncomfortable but it’s cheap and always a bit of an adventure and a sense of achievement when I finally get to my destination. That’s the best thing about having no real plan, I’m under no pressure and I can stop off were ever I like. There is always somewhere to put my head, it might not be the cleanest place, which is great therapy for OCD Liz! I’ve learnt to ask more than one person direction as they are embarrassed to say they don’t know so they just make it up, which isn’t much fun when you are carrying a heavy rucksack. So I look at my map and decide to go Dhulikhel which is described as a picturesque hamlet. Well whoever said that must have had their eyes shut! It was noisy and filthy…rubbish everywhere which is pretty standard in Nepal. I got off at the bus station and headed for the nearest hotel, off loaded my stuff and went exploring. I walked up a thousand steps to a view point which I’m sure on a clear day is amazing, I quite enjoyed it as it made me feel so fresh and alive after the suffocating atmosphere of Kathmandu. People seemed friendly. Whenever I got my map out people asked if they could help me..i could tell by their eyes they really meant it and weren’t after something. I came across a bunch of teenagers who were celebrating the end of their studies, they almost jumped on me as I came into view to welcome me to join in with their celebration. It was an organised set up with a disco and food, they insisted that I danced and were only too willing to teach me…but to be honest I was more interested in tasting their food, which looked mouth-watering. So after me saying no to the dance and I’d rather have some food thank you. It felt a bit like someone offering you a drink and saying …errr…no thanks I’d rather have the money, when they refused i moved on ..lol!!! So I bought a corn the cob from a street seller instead, he appeared to be so grateful. I popped into a local eating place for a beer and had a lovely chat with a ten year old boy working there. Even in the local shop they were really friendly, I got the impression that not many foreigners visit the place. I returned to the hotel, the hotel is run by a three generation family. I observed them and am not sure if I envied them or felt sorry for them…envy because they seem like a nice closenet family and I could since the love and respect they have for each other..pity because I thought that the young guy (about 18 I guess) is one day going to be sitting in his grandfather’s chair and pretty much every day on that move of one meter is going to be exactly the same only different faces along the way…boring!
a typical Nepalese street scene, rubbish and fumes..yuk!!
walking up the 1000 steps in Dhulikhel, the guys on each side of me look so serious..lol!
Next day I got up early to make my way to Naragort (a hill village). Another adventure…luckily enough as soon as came out of the hotel the bus driver from the day before was going past and said he was going to Naragort…result or so I thought!! They let me off in about 10km outside Kathmandu and pointed me in a direction to catch a connecting bus. Well…about an hour later after walking up and down and being stared at 1000 times..which I was not in the mood for, a helpful guy on a motor bike stopped to offer me help. He said in perfect English “I saw you an hour ago walking up and down, can I help you?” What a relief to my ears as by this time I had asked about six people who kept sending me up and down the same road. So fair play to him…he took me to the bus stop that he didn’t even know about so had to ask and asked the driver to drop me off at the correct stop and point me in the right direction to get the NEXT connecting bus to Naragort. I must admit by this time I’m thinking..i hope this place is worth it! 
So about six long hours later I arrived in Naragort and it was worth the effort, thank God! I found a gorgeous hotel for £4 a night. A bamboo hut in a very authentic looking hotel with amassing views even in the mist. I was their only guest. The next morning I headed for the view tower, on a clear day you can see Everest, on my day at some points I couldn’t even see my hand with the fog. It reminded me of the Monivea Road in Galway. There is a huge army base presence and I met a couple of army guys on my walk who were very friendly and quite entertaining. When I finally got to the view tower after about an hour, it wasn’t that bad and I could see something. I met a Korean guy who has been trekking all over Nepal in the monsoon, how brave! He reminded me of the Chinese bloke from heroes…which made me laugh.
Next day thought …this is nice might park up here for a while! So I’ll see if I can get a decent long deal…my hotel wasn’t having it and to be honest the owner wasn’t really interested..I’d rather give my money to someone who was. I spent the day walking around the village….and having dinner and tea with that locals. I had some Raksi, local brewed alcohol with the guy from the local shop, its crazy stuff…apparently the locals have a glass before they go off to work in the morning as its good for your health….maybe that why life expectancy is 65! Anyway..I’ve forgot his name (strong stuff), said that Jiri was a great place to go..i noted this and put it on my list. Shortly after that I went back to my hotel for a tea and then moved onto my room about 10.30pm. I was just about to get into bed when I looked at my pillow, there was only what I can only describe as some kind of poo on it…I thought..WTF..my room/hut was about 5 mins walk away my the main building. I’m thinking there must be some kind of animal in the room…maybe a rat or something and maybe my imagination was running away with me but I was sure I saw something run under the table.. The lighting was so low that it was hard to know for sure. I thought… if I open the door it might not run out and I might be letting more things in, so I hid under the covers.
 
At the Tower View in Naragort

I hope to ride on top of a bus soon!
5/7/2011.
Got up early to take some photos, and then made my way to the bus stop. Luckily I had 20 mins to spare to have breakfast in my local cafe. I thought I’d head for Jiri….probably the nearest place I could go to get to Everest. Well…it turned into an eventful day to say the least. There is something to say about travelling on your own…it has its freedom but also loneliness. So off I head…about three hours by bus around the outskirts of Kathmandu trying to find a connecting local bus to Jiri. So..i eventually find this bus after walking up and down that same road for about an hour (same old story)…even the local guy who was helping me didn’t know! I eventually got on the the bus for Jiri…they were so friendly and helpful. The bus was packed and thought I can’t stand carrying my backpack for an hour or so…so I thought double check the journey time. I asked the guy next to me how long the journey is..11 hours was his reply…11 HOURS!!!. I said..is it nice there? "no not really". I got off while it was filling up at a petrol station and made my way up to Pokhara via Bandipur. Note to self...research Liz...research!!
 

Monday, 27 June 2011

Vipassana course completed!


Vipassana course completed! :o). Sitting, trying not to move for 10 hours a day for 10 days was not an easy task. Wake up at 4am, lights out at 9.30pm. Nobel silence for 9 days, eating only fruit after 11am lunch. Time seemed to stand still. I could write a book about it, to make it quick….
Did I enjoy it? NO, not one bit.
Did I learn from it? YES, loads and I can now calm my mind and sit still for an hour.
How did I feel now? I feel rejuvenated, body and mind cleansed :o)
Would I do it again?  NO WAY!!!
I’m back in Kathmandu again deciding what to do next. I was hoping to go to Ladek in India, but can’t get back into India until end of July. Once you leave India you can’t return for two months….crazy!! I went to the Indian Embassy yesterday to see if I could pay to go back sooner but nope :o(
I might make my way over to Thailand, will look at flights today.

Saturday, 11 June 2011

Still in Pokhara


I’m still in Pokhara, i never went to the yoga retreat in the end. I hiked an hour up the mountain and decided against it after the host said i would have to share a room. Part of me is turning into “The Idiot Abroad”, after my hideous dormitory experience in Gangtok, sharing a room with someone you have contact with all day is not my idea of a “retreat”.

I’ve been taking it easy these last few days. Lots of meals, a few beers here and there, a bit of sightseeing. The weight that i lost is back on :o(. 

I’m off to Kathmandu on Monday as i’m booked on the 10 Vipassana Meditation Course, now that will be a challenge! Elizabeth at the school raved about it. Ten days mediation in silence…at least if i stay in a dorm there, i won’t have to listen to endless talking. A lot of people leave before the end of the course…i wonder how i do?

I do love it here in Pokhara…..especially compared to Kathmandu, the hotels are lovely and clean (which is perfect for OCD Liz). I’m spoiling myself by staying in a wonderful hotel for £2.60/night! Which reminds me….the girls I met in Kathmandu had rats living under their beds! Which doesn’t surprise me as you could see rats running through the resturant. OH MY GOD!!!..... i hope i don’t have rats at my meditation course :o(…..i could not deal with that.
Last night, i had a great laugh with Paddy, a photographer from Cork. We ended up in a hidden away Tibetan bar, where we danced to their traditional music..wished i had taken some photos! Paddy is on an around the world trip, he has taken the most stunning photos. Checkout his website http://pburnsdimage.com/

Fewa Lake



on my boat ride across the lake
I had a great chat with Norris and Bob, i think they were pulling my leg!

Hurry up Paddy, Happy Hour has started!!
You can just see the Annapurna Mountains in the backround


Tuesday, 7 June 2011

Kathmandu to Chitwan and now in Pokhara, Nepal :o)....more pictures to follow


Today is Tuesday 7th June…time is whizzing by…i can’t wait for mid August as a very special person is coming out to visit me in Thailand.. :o)

I arrived in Pokhara on Saturday 4th. The weather was shining, the views of the river and the mountains… breathtaking!  I bought myself some a nice trekking backpack and investigated what treks would be suitable for me…..ok sorted..or so I thought! Since that it has rained, rained and rained. I managed to get an early morning walk in yesterday before the rain. So instead of trekking I have booked a three day yoga/meditation course. Depending on how it goes I might stay on longer. This will be a completely new experience for me…and can’t wait…heading off after I’ve posted this.
Phewa Lake


Kathmandu…interesting and busy!


My view on Kathmandu changed once I got my laptop back. It’s  an interesting place and there is lots to see. The food is great and there are loads of bars, I met some lovely girls from England. But to be honest…it’s far too busy for me...i must be getting old! I was there for 3 or 4 nights (can't remember), three days strikes in that time. Stones where being thrown at my bus when entering Kathmandu...with that and my laptop being stolen... was not a good start!!

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local people expressing their political views

View from The Curry House (best curry so far)

Durbar Square

School thing is not happening in Chitwan...what to do now??


Well I met up with the volunteer guy is Kathmandu…and to keep a long story short, i’m not going ahead with the Chitwan project, I’m not saying it’s a scam but all is not as transparent as I would like. The guy told me not to say a lot of things to the school on arrival…. such as how much money I was going to give him (which was a lot more than originally planned) …so i’m gone with my gut instinct which is to stay well clear of it and gave him nothing!



I stayed in Chitwan for a few days and just relaxed. I was going to go on a safari walk but thought better of it after ready a blog on the net. It said that it’s hard to find an experienced guide as most of them get killed on the job. A few of the locals confirmed this and on my second day, one of the guides got badly attacked by a Rhino!



Monday, 6 June 2011

Photos of last few days at school - the feelings im left with......


Travelling backwards here, but want to share the last few days at the school with you. I have had the most amazing experience with the children that I shall never forget! I love their purity, unspoiltness, eagerness to learn, their love and appreciation. Just for you to call them by there name appears to be giving them a gift of importance that will encourage them to move on in life. These kids are the lucky ones, only one child from a family can attend the school, the other family members have to live with the fact that their future is an uneducated one. In most cases living with abusive families, having no food and no love. This future will most likely be passed onto their children’s future..:o(
Moving on…not sure how to describe the loveliness and simplicity of it all. I shall never forget the feeling of sunshine in my heart as the rain fell and my luckiness to have experienced the beauty of a little hand in mine, a shiny face with a radiant smile...saying thank you miss for loving me!!
The experience has definitely made me more appreciative of my own life. I’m one of the lucky ones, I’ve been blessed by being brought up in the most loving family I could have ever have hoped for. I have never wanted for anything and most importantly of all ....i have always felt loved, cared for and safe. Thank you mum and dad (miss you dad..RIP) for giving me such a special love and a gorgeous family...i love and miss you mum, dad, Jo, John and Fi ..and everyone else XXX.
backwards here, but want to share the last few days at the school with you. I have had the most amazing experience with children that I shall never forget! I love their purity, unspoiltness, eagerness to learn , their love and appreciation. Just for you to call them by name appears to be giving them a gift of importance that will encourage them to move on in life. These kids are the lucky ones, only one child from a family can attend the school, the other family members have to live with the fact that their future is an uneducated one. In most cases living with abusive families, having no food and no love. This future will most likely be pass on to their children’s future..:o(
Moving on…not sure how to describe the loveliness and simplicity of it all. I shall never forget the feeling of sunshine in my heart as the rain fell and my luckiness to have experienced the beauty of a little hand in mine, a shiny face with a radiant smile...saying thank you miss for loving me!!
The experience has definitely made me more appreciative of my own life. I’m one of the lucky ones, I’ve been blessed by being brought up in the most loving family I could have ever have hoped for. I have never wanted for anything and most importantly of all ....i have always felt loved, cared for and safe. Thank you mum and dad (miss you dad..RIP) for giving me such a special love and a gorgeous family...i love and miss you mum, dad, Jo, John and Fi ..and everyone else XXX.

prayer time
Sital…my favourite ..(not that I could ever say that), he made my laugh, smile and was so helpful in class, I love that fact that he was NEVER without a smile….he has no idea when his birthday is and had no shoes and a sore finger!!! Which I just told him he was so brave for...hence the most gorgeous smile....Sital ..i will NEVER forget you :o)
playtime in the hostel
playtime in the hostel
after school on a Saturday
Reading a bedtime story, afterwards you get lots of “thank you miss” “goodnight miss, sweet dreams” and lots and lots of hugs and kisses

on our night walk before prayer time...just look at their happy faces :o)
on our walk


in the classroom, they love having thier picture taken
my bedtime story worked! one asleep at least








 
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